Its all About the GUYS
Dear Advice Cafe,
I have liked this guy for about 3 years. My friend said he was talking about a
girl he liked at one time, and she said it sounded a lot like me. But the key
word there: liked. Past tense. We are friends, I guess, but I can't seem to
start a conversation with him. It's just awkward. He and I used to talk, he made
me laugh. He still talks, but I kinda just sit there. I smile and laugh, sure,
but I can't talk! Should I still keep liking him? Or should I just give up, and
go on and still be friends? If it's the second one, how can I start talking to
him normally again?
-SH
Dear SH,
Thats always hard. But, guys like girls who have personalities and arnnt afraid of being themselves. Guys dont really love those fake girls who act stupid and pretty, they cant help yo fall for the girl with the funny comments, great additude, and keeps things cool. For this advice, I'm going to be doing a two way with my twin brother Mack. He's a guys, so he'll be telling you how guys see it.
-Mallory
Dear SH,
Ummmm, love. Guys look at girls and two things pop into their minds
1. I'm hungry.
2. WOW.
Guys can find something they like in every girl. But, the truth?? We like girls who will talk to us and not make it ackward. Who talk, but still listen. My advice for you is to talk to him like you would one of your girlies (or whatever you call them). Act normal!
Best of LUCK
-Mack
I have liked this guy for about 3 years. My friend said he was talking about a
girl he liked at one time, and she said it sounded a lot like me. But the key
word there: liked. Past tense. We are friends, I guess, but I can't seem to
start a conversation with him. It's just awkward. He and I used to talk, he made
me laugh. He still talks, but I kinda just sit there. I smile and laugh, sure,
but I can't talk! Should I still keep liking him? Or should I just give up, and
go on and still be friends? If it's the second one, how can I start talking to
him normally again?
-SH
Dear SH,
Thats always hard. But, guys like girls who have personalities and arnnt afraid of being themselves. Guys dont really love those fake girls who act stupid and pretty, they cant help yo fall for the girl with the funny comments, great additude, and keeps things cool. For this advice, I'm going to be doing a two way with my twin brother Mack. He's a guys, so he'll be telling you how guys see it.
-Mallory
Dear SH,
Ummmm, love. Guys look at girls and two things pop into their minds
1. I'm hungry.
2. WOW.
Guys can find something they like in every girl. But, the truth?? We like girls who will talk to us and not make it ackward. Who talk, but still listen. My advice for you is to talk to him like you would one of your girlies (or whatever you call them). Act normal!
Best of LUCK
-Mack
Confused but in LOVE!!!
I didn't know this guy liked me, and I realized too late. He likes someone else
now... And the worst part is NOW I like him back. What should I do? Keep liking
him, or just move on, and realize I'm just too late?
From, Realizingtoolate
Dear Realizngtoolate,
I understand where you are comming from. And, to be honest, your situation is complicated but not rare. Boys like girls, girls like boys. When a guy sees a girl he really likes, but she doesn't show any feelings, he is confused and takes the next runner up. I think he still kinda likes you. If you slowly start showing him you like him, through little smiles, jokes, and flirting, I think he'll take a hint and fall right back in love with you.
Sorry it took so long to get back. Will not happen again.
-Torry
now... And the worst part is NOW I like him back. What should I do? Keep liking
him, or just move on, and realize I'm just too late?
From, Realizingtoolate
Dear Realizngtoolate,
I understand where you are comming from. And, to be honest, your situation is complicated but not rare. Boys like girls, girls like boys. When a guy sees a girl he really likes, but she doesn't show any feelings, he is confused and takes the next runner up. I think he still kinda likes you. If you slowly start showing him you like him, through little smiles, jokes, and flirting, I think he'll take a hint and fall right back in love with you.
Sorry it took so long to get back. Will not happen again.
-Torry
Friends or Not??
Dear Advice Cafe,
How can I tell the difference between a guy who is a just a friend, and a guy
who likes me? See, there is this guy. We hang out a lot, he walks with me to
places, and waits for me [after class, and such]. I don't know if he is doing it
because we are friends, or because he likes me. Please help!
From,
IJustDon'tKnow
Dear IJUSTDONTKNOW,
WOW!!! I wish guys did that to me. A boy who does that, in my opinion, is into you. The problem is, as soon as you two become a couple, things get ackward fast. My suggestion is to wait for him. If he really likes you, he will ask you out or tell you he likes you. I wouldn't rush it though. Savor the firendship you have, it's very rare.
-Kora
How can I tell the difference between a guy who is a just a friend, and a guy
who likes me? See, there is this guy. We hang out a lot, he walks with me to
places, and waits for me [after class, and such]. I don't know if he is doing it
because we are friends, or because he likes me. Please help!
From,
IJustDon'tKnow
Dear IJUSTDONTKNOW,
WOW!!! I wish guys did that to me. A boy who does that, in my opinion, is into you. The problem is, as soon as you two become a couple, things get ackward fast. My suggestion is to wait for him. If he really likes you, he will ask you out or tell you he likes you. I wouldn't rush it though. Savor the firendship you have, it's very rare.
-Kora
Is love the answer?
I have had this crush on this guy forever. He just doesn't notice me. He is super cute and amazing. He is like everything I have been wanting. I am just really shy and I don't know if I can tell him I like him.
-LOVEstrucKKK
Dear LOVEstruKKK,
If he is the right one you guys would talk all the time, he would tell you. All you have to do is wait. What most girls don't know is that when you tell a boy you like him it makes him go crazy and he never talks to you. I know this because I am a guy. I know that if there was this girl I liked so much, I would tell her. I would not run the risk of telling him that. Just wait, maybe he does like you, or maybe anouther guy does.
Us guys can look like we don't like you but we really do.
Good Luck!
-Jeremy
-LOVEstrucKKK
Dear LOVEstruKKK,
If he is the right one you guys would talk all the time, he would tell you. All you have to do is wait. What most girls don't know is that when you tell a boy you like him it makes him go crazy and he never talks to you. I know this because I am a guy. I know that if there was this girl I liked so much, I would tell her. I would not run the risk of telling him that. Just wait, maybe he does like you, or maybe anouther guy does.
Us guys can look like we don't like you but we really do.
Good Luck!
-Jeremy
HELP ME
Dear Advice Cafe,
I am a high schooler at Baton High in Tennesee. I have been dating this guy for a year and I still really like him. The problem is, I don't think he likes me. First, I saw him flirting with this one girl I have never seen before. Then, it got worse. I was out shopping with my mom and I saw him with anouther girl holding hands. I want to give him anouther chance, he doesn't even now I saw him. I really love him.
-LoveBlind
Answer:
Dear LoveBlind,
Truth is, guys are stupid. Guys think it will be ok if they just go out with this one girl, even if they have a girlfriend already. I personaly would dump him. He needs a wake-up-call. Let's say this happened 10 years from now and both of you are about to get married. Two weeks before the ceremony he goes out for a drink with a young girl. Would you be mad? That's how it's like. You see, people are supposed to date to get to know eachother because they want to get married. Do you want a husband like that?
By dumping him, you are teaching him a lesson. He most likely will not do that with anyother girl. You will save a young girls heart from being hurt, just like yours. Don't worry, anouther guy will come along!
-Kelly
I am a high schooler at Baton High in Tennesee. I have been dating this guy for a year and I still really like him. The problem is, I don't think he likes me. First, I saw him flirting with this one girl I have never seen before. Then, it got worse. I was out shopping with my mom and I saw him with anouther girl holding hands. I want to give him anouther chance, he doesn't even now I saw him. I really love him.
-LoveBlind
Answer:
Dear LoveBlind,
Truth is, guys are stupid. Guys think it will be ok if they just go out with this one girl, even if they have a girlfriend already. I personaly would dump him. He needs a wake-up-call. Let's say this happened 10 years from now and both of you are about to get married. Two weeks before the ceremony he goes out for a drink with a young girl. Would you be mad? That's how it's like. You see, people are supposed to date to get to know eachother because they want to get married. Do you want a husband like that?
By dumping him, you are teaching him a lesson. He most likely will not do that with anyother girl. You will save a young girls heart from being hurt, just like yours. Don't worry, anouther guy will come along!
-Kelly